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Writer's pictureAbsro Solomon

Embracing Uniqueness: Letting Kids Be Kids...




Hey there, Zarayn fam!


I want to share a scenario that many parents can relate to, and I'm curious to hear your thoughts.


Imagine this: Your child insists on wearing pajamas to school, much to your dismay. You worry about what other parents and teachers might think. Will they judge you as an incapable parent who can't manage their child's wardrobe choices?


But here's the twist: What if we shifted our perspective?

What if, instead of worrying about societal judgment, we chose to embrace our child's uniqueness?


In this scenario, the mom faces a dilemma. She could insist on her child conforming to societal norms, or she could choose to prioritize her child's autonomy and self-expression.


As a parent, it's natural to want to protect our children from judgment and criticism. But what if by allowing our children to be themselves, quirks and all, we're empowering them?


So, Zarayn community, I'm curious: What do you think about this approach? How do you navigate the balance between societal expectations and embracing your child's uniqueness?


Let's start a conversation in the comments below! Your insights and experiences are invaluable. Together, let's support each other on this journey of parenting and celebrate the beautiful diversity of our children's spirits. #EmbraceUniqueness #ParentingJourney

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akberet1
Apr 24

Interesting article! I hardly let my children stay in their pyjamas at home let alone go to school. I don’t do it because of what others might think, I just don’t think it is hygienic.


However, I let my kids wear their hair in whatever way they want. This is often frowned upon in my culture but I don’t want to comply to that pressure.

My honest opinion is it all depends on the situation at hand…let them be but not if it compromises their well-being

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zarayn4
Apr 25
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Hygienic :) That is an edge I didn't even consider. Yes, those are the elements that we need to step in and inform our kids as to why they cannot do certain things for safety reasons.


I couldn't agree more with your hair comment.

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Sadie B
Sadie B
Mar 08

It start with PJ and then to other things will follow! I hear what you saying but I rather chose other areas of uniqueness that PJ!

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Pj is just an example, but would we need to embrace their uniqueness or just make the path for them to our planned destination?

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bezawit09
Mar 07

I think rules and norms are important to teach. Children need guidance. we can't just let them do what they want. Pj's are made for bedroom, might be ok to have a special PJ day, but not just because a kid wants it.

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I agree. But what is the norm? Who has a say on that? Are we allowing ourselves to see what could potentially come out of our kids without constraints or moulding them into what is already expected?

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